{"id":107561,"date":"2019-09-08T09:58:36","date_gmt":"2019-09-08T07:58:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/osr.org\/?p=107561"},"modified":"2024-05-24T18:55:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-24T16:55:02","slug":"balik-burcunda-yeni-bir-dolunay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/osr.org\/tr\/blog\/astronomi\/balik-burcunda-yeni-bir-dolunay\/","title":{"rendered":"Bal\u0131k burcunda yeni bir dolunay"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bal\u0131k dolunay\u0131 ile geldi\u011fimiz noktada g\u00f6zler, hayat\u0131m\u0131zda tuttuklar\u0131m\u0131za ve tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7evriliyor. Onlara dair \u201cne veriyorum, kar\u015f\u0131mdan dengeli alma halinde miyim?\u201d sorgusu ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00c7evremizdekilerle ili\u015fkide, i\u015f, e\u015f, arkada\u015f, aile i\u00e7i ba\u011flant\u0131larda \u201ctek\/yo\u011fun fedakarl\u0131k yapan ben miyim?\u201d sorular\u0131 y\u00fckselebilir. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 devam ettirmekte zorlanmakla birlikte kaybetme korkusu, devaml\u0131l\u0131k kayg\u0131s\u0131 ile tavizlerle yap\u0131lanlar\u0131n istenen noktaya ula\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Verme halinin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmemekten veya s\u00fcrekli al\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmaktan kaynakl\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131k, i\u00e7erleme hissederken bast\u0131rma, bu duygular\u0131 yok sayma s\u00f6z konusu ise, kendi de\u011ferini alg\u0131lama y\u00f6ntemi olarak, de\u011fer g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in fedakarl\u0131k yapmak zorunda hissediliyor ise, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zca bir\u015feylerin yoluna adama gibi durumlar s\u00f6z konusu ise s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izme ihtiyac\u0131 hissedilecek. Yok say\u0131lan duygular kendini daha fazla hissettirecek. Bug\u00fcne kadar fazlaca vermekten de\u011fer hissi sa\u011flan\u0131rken i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fumuz s\u00fcre\u00e7te dengeli alamamak de\u011fersiz hissetmeye sebep olabilir.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #15acdf;\">Y\u0131ld\u0131zlarda dengeye ihtiya\u00e7 duyaca\u011f\u0131z<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Fedakarl\u0131klar sonu\u00e7 olarak mutsuzlu\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc ise onlardan beslenen egosal yanlarla, feda-karl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u201ckar\u201d k\u0131sm\u0131 ile y\u00fczle\u015febilir, kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 yok etme pahas\u0131na verici olma sebeplerini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irebiliriz. Kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcyle ayakta durmayaca\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen, bir taraf\u0131n a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 vericili\u011fiyle yerinde tutulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan ili\u015fkilerde de\u011fi\u015fimler ger\u00e7ekle\u015febilir. Yok say\u0131lan duygulara ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n gelmesiyle davran\u0131\u015flar da de\u011fi\u015fiyor olacak. Fazla vermenin, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ait i\u015fleri, g\u00f6revleri yapman\u0131n da dengeyi bozdu\u011funu, esasen bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na yer b\u0131rakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edebiliriz. Arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z dengeyi sa\u011flaman\u0131n, verdi\u011fimiz kadar almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine, kendi fazla veri\u015flerimizi dengelemekten ge\u00e7ti\u011fini g\u00f6rebiliriz. S\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7ten \u00e7izece\u011fiz, dengeyi i\u00e7eriden kurgulayaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda tuttuklar\u0131m\u0131z aras\u0131nda esasen art\u0131k yarar\u0131m\u0131za hizmet etmeyen, hatta belki bizden yiyenleri b\u0131rakmamakta \u0131srar ediyorsak de\u011fi\u015fim kendini g\u00f6sterebilir. B\u0131rak\u0131lma vakti gelenleri, b\u0131rakmam\u0131z gerekenleri zaman\u0131nda b\u0131rakmay\u0131 hat\u0131rlayabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Bal\u0131k dolunay\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015fimleri kay\u0131p olarak g\u00f6rebiliriz. \u00d6z\u00fcnde; dengelenme, kendi de\u011ferini fark etme zaman\u0131. Herkesin e\u015fit \u015fekilde de\u011ferli oldu\u011fu, kimsenin bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 tek tarafl\u0131 fazla fazla \u201cbesleme\u201d zorunlulu\u011fu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark etme s\u00fcreci.<\/p>\n<p>Kendimizi adama hallerinde rahats\u0131z olma, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar\u0131 fark etme ger\u00e7ekle\u015firken, y\u0131pranma, kendini yok etme, s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 silme hallerinde uyan\u0131\u015f ya\u015fan\u0131rken g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczde idealize etti\u011fimiz ki\u015filere yeni bir g\u00f6zle bakma, denkli\u011fi, e\u015fitli\u011fi fark etme s\u00f6z konusu olabilir. \u00dcst\u00fcnl\u00fcklerin de\u011fil farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n mevcut oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rebiliriz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bal\u0131k dolunay\u0131 ile geldi\u011fimiz noktada g\u00f6zler, hayat\u0131m\u0131zda tuttuklar\u0131m\u0131za ve tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7evriliyor. Onlara dair \u201cne veriyorum, kar\u015f\u0131mdan dengeli alma halinde miyim?\u201d sorgusu ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00c7evremizdekilerle ili\u015fkide, i\u015f, e\u015f, arkada\u015f, aile i\u00e7i ba\u011flant\u0131larda \u201ctek\/yo\u011fun fedakarl\u0131k yapan ben miyim?\u201d sorular\u0131 y\u00fckselebilir. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 devam ettirmekte zorlanmakla birlikte kaybetme korkusu, devaml\u0131l\u0131k kayg\u0131s\u0131 ile tavizlerle yap\u0131lanlar\u0131n istenen noktaya ula\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebiliriz. 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